Sorry for the long hiatus. It has been a hectic month here.
So, let’s get right to it. I have friends in Boston and family back home in Texas. Two tragedies in one week and I no longer have finger nails to chew.
After Boston, I braced for the inevitable “#prayforboston” to spam the airwaves. And boy did it ever! At first, I ignored it. But the more images I saw of the raw carnage and horror that had befallen my neighbors, I had to actually do and say something. I started posting about blood banks, donation sites and found an eBay connected CharityWorks that donates DIRECTLY to Mass General. Set up 5 auctions myself which all end Sunday to raise a few hundred dollars for donation.
I started responding to friends and family who posted “pray for boston” and linked them directly to the hospital’s donation page. >> https://give.massgeneral.org/boston-marathon << Apparently, this was “belittling” and “insulting” to believers.
But I have to ask, if a neighbor comes to your door crying and sobbing that their house is on fire, do you just let them cry it out? Or do you help them focus, call 9-11 and get that fire put out? Just because a behavior makes you feel better or helps you pretend that you are helping, does not make it a good thing. I believe in helping people. Not patting myself on the back for caring or retweeting that I care.
A few days later, West, Texas suffered a tragedy. My own brothers were there helping put out fires and search for survivors. My mother drove up from SanAntonio to volunteer at her old hospital, Scott & White. I am all the way in New York, so I pledged the remaining money from eBay sales to West, Texas support. Again, I sent out links, encouraging those who could help to do so.
I will not apologize or be made to feel guilty for trying to actually ASSIST PEOPLE IN NEED rather than stroking my own ego and talking to myself. My family is Christian. They actually believe in prayer for many things. But in times of emergency, they remind themselves that “God helps those who help themselves” and they get to work. Of course, these are well read Christians who understand the lessons of hospitality and helping the needy too. >.>
So to all those people who I may have “offended” or “belittled”, I am not sorry. And fuck you.